What If Your Marriage Became Your
Greatest Act of Worship?
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." — Ephesians 5:25
Free 15 minutes · No commitment · No sales pitchThis Is About Making Your Marriage Holy
Most people come to marriage resources when something is wrong. This is for something different: couples who want to know what Ephesians 5:25 actually looks like lived out.
Not as a goal to aspire to someday. Not as a verse to put on a wall. As a daily practice, a daily offering, a way of loving your spouse that transforms both of you.
Whether your marriage is good and you want it to be extraordinary, or whether it is struggling and you want it to be restored — the answer is the same: offer it to God.
"Every act of love, every moment of service, becomes an offering to God. That is the heartbeat of marriage as worship."— From Intentional Love
- You want a marriage that glorifies God — not just a stable one
- You take Ephesians 5:25 seriously and want to understand what it truly demands
- You want your children to watch your marriage and understand what love is
- Your faith is the foundation of your home, not an afterthought
- You're willing to be the one who changes first — and who leads
- You want the kind of marriage that points people to God just by existing
- You believe there is more to your marriage than what you've experienced so far
Three Practices That Transform a Good Marriage Into a Holy One
These didn't come from a certification course. They came from years of living Ephesians 5:25 and building a marriage that actually reflects it.
Marriage as an Act of Worship
The foundation. Stop asking "How do I fix this?" and start asking "How do I offer this to God?" Every conflict, every act of service, every difficult conversation becomes an act of devotion. This single shift changes everything that follows.
Love First. Always First.
Before defending yourself. Before explaining. Before trying to be right. Say "I love you" first. Then ask: "Do you want me to listen, or help fix this?" This breaks the cycle of escalation every time — because it leads with love instead of defense.
Daily Intentional Acts & Words
Not grand gestures. Consistent small choices: a word of encouragement when it's undeserved, an act of service when you're tired, genuine presence when distraction is easier. These compound into something extraordinary over time.
If You Found This Page, It Wasn't Because of a Sales Funnel
I don't run ads. I don't have a retargeting pixel. There is no email sequence that brought you here. I write about marriage — on The Eastern Church, in my books — because I believe your marriage is one of the most holy things God has given you.
If you're reading this, you were looking for something. And God has a way of putting the right things in front of the right people at the right time.
I'm not trying to reach a thousand couples. I mentor a small number, with real attention. I'm here because I genuinely want to see Christian marriages become what God intended — not because I built a business around your pain.
You Work With Jeremy
Weekly one-on-one sessions built around Ephesians 5:25 and the three practices from our published books. Not tactics. Not communication scripts. A framework for becoming the kind of husband whose wife can't imagine her life without him.
This is for the man who wants his marriage to be holy — and is willing to be the one who leads that transformation.
Schedule Your Discovery CallYour Wife Works With Ashley
Ashley is my partner in everything — in our marriage, in the books we wrote together, and in this work. She co-authored these books. She wrote the foreword to Intentional Love not as a marketing piece, but as her own honest account of what transformation looks like from the inside.
If your wife wants her own conversation — her own safe space to explore what she needs, hopes for, and hasn't yet said — Ashley is here for that. Separately. On her terms.
Ashley's Discovery Call (mention "for Ashley" when booking)Before We Built Any of This, She Wrote This
"I used to wonder if the distance between us was just how marriage worked. What I didn't understand was that my husband was quietly learning to love me in a way I had never experienced — and that it would change everything."— Ashley, co-author & Jeremy's wife
"He started saying 'I love you' before anything else — before defending himself, before explaining. Something in me stopped bracing for impact. I started trusting that whatever came next wouldn't hurt us."— Ashley, from the foreword to Intentional Love
"I didn't ask him to change. He just quietly, consistently began loving me better. And it transformed our marriage from the inside — the way only God can do something."— Ashley, co-author & Jeremy's wife
Jeremy & Ashley
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We Built This Marriage Without a Roadmap
Nobody handed me a blueprint for loving my wife the way Ephesians 5:25 calls a husband to love. I figured it out through years of trial, failure, repentance, and transformation — with Ashley beside me through every step of it.
Ashley co-authored our books. She wrote the foreword to Intentional Love not as a marketing piece, but as her own testimony — because the transformation was real and she wanted other wives to know it was possible. What you read in our books is what we live. Not what we studied. Not what we teach because it sounds right. What we built our marriage on, day by day.
When I work with a husband, Ashley is available to work with his wife — not because it's a program feature, but because your wife deserves the same conversation Ashley had: with someone who's been where she is and can speak to where she can go.
How This Works
Free Discovery Call — 15 Minutes
We talk. You share where you are. I tell you honestly whether I think I can help. No sales pitch. If this isn't the right fit, I'll tell you. Sessions are available by Zoom, phone, or — if you're in the Austin, TX area — in person.
Intake Conversation
Before sessions begin, you complete a short intake so I understand your specific situation. This shapes everything that follows.
Foundation Session
Your first full hour. We establish what marriage as worship actually means for your specific situation and begin building the framework your marriage will grow into.
Weekly Sessions + Daily Practice
One hour each week, plus daily practices I give you between sessions. The sessions build the framework. The daily practices build the marriage.
Month-to-Month — Always Your Choice
No contracts. No locked packages. You continue as long as the work is producing fruit. You stop whenever you're ready.
This Is — and Isn't — For You
This Is For You If…
- ✓ You want a marriage that glorifies God, not just a stable one
- ✓ You're willing to be the one who changes first
- ✓ You take Ephesians 5:25 seriously — or want to
- ✓ Your faith is the foundation, not the afterthought
- ✓ You want your marriage to be a testimony that points people to God
- ✓ You're ready to show up fully, not just when it's easy
This Isn't For You If…
- ✗ You're looking for someone to fix your spouse
- ✗ You want validation for staying exactly as you are
- ✗ You need licensed clinical therapy — if so, please get it
- ✗ You want quick fixes without real daily commitment
- ✗ Your faith is private and you'd prefer to keep it out of this
- ✗ You're hoping to find out whose fault it is
Show Up Fully. See Real Growth.
Or Pay Nothing.
I'm not promising a perfect marriage in 30 days. What I am promising: if you show up to every session, do the daily work, and engage fully — and by day 30 you cannot point to real, visible growth in how you are showing up for your spouse — I will refund every dollar. No questions. No argument.
I'm confident enough in this work to put the first month on the line.
Simple. Accessible. Month-to-Month.
Most professional coaching costs $200–400 per session. This is $100 — because access to serious marriage mentorship shouldn't require a premium income. This is built to reach the couples God sends.
- ✓ One weekly 60-minute session (Zoom or phone)
- ✓ Full intake before sessions begin
- ✓ Email access between sessions
- ✓ Daily practice guidance for your specific situation
- ✓ Recommended reading from our published books
- ✓ Separate mentorship option for your wife with Ashley
- ✓ 30-day growth guarantee on your first month
Before You Reach Out
Read the Books. Read the Articles.
See If This Is For You.
Everything behind this mentorship is already in print — available free. Read before you commit to anything. If the framework resonates, you'll know.
Intentional Love: Loving Your Wife as Christ Loved the Church
The core framework. What Ephesians 5:25 actually looks like practiced daily — not as an aspiration, but as a way of life. This is the theological foundation of everything in this mentorship.
Read free →Speak Life into Your Marriage
30 days of communication practices built on grace, not conflict strategy. Learn how your words — daily and consistently — either build your marriage or slowly erode it.
Read free →The Marriage Habit: 30-Day Christian Marriage Devotional
Thirty daily intentional practices that build love into your routine. Small, consistent choices that compound into something extraordinary over time.
Read free →How to Love Your Spouse Like Christ Loves the Church
What the most demanding verse in Scripture actually requires of a husband — and what it makes possible.
Read →Selfless Love in Christian Marriage
Why the key to a transformed marriage isn't better communication or shared goals — it's learning to love without keeping score.
Read →Make Your Home a Church: St. John Chrysostom
The ancient teaching that the Christian home is a small church — and what that means for how you lead and love within it.
Read →Based in Austin? We Can Meet in Person.
All sessions are available by Zoom or phone — but if you're in the Austin, Texas area, we can meet face to face. There's something different about doing this work in the same room. If that matters to you, mention it when you schedule your discovery call.
Schedule an Austin Session →Your Marriage Was Made to Be
More Than This
Fifteen minutes. No sales pitch. Just an honest conversation about where you are and whether I can help. If I can't, I'll tell you. If I can — this could be the most important call you make for your family.
Schedule Your Free Discovery Call Free · 15 Minutes · No Commitment · You Can Bring Your Wife